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You have already succeeded
Why not tell yourself (or someone else) that they will succeed in the future.
I know you do. I know it is with good intentions. And I must admit, I do too from time to time.
You will be successful…
You will be happy…
What is the problem with this? Can you see it?
What if I said it like that instead.
You will be enough… you will be good enough…
Do you see it now?
The problem with saying that you will be successful
The problem does not lie in what you actually say. The problem lies in what you say without saying it. While you are saying that you will be successful (or something else), you are also saying that you are not successful enough right now…
Or not happy enough right now ..
Just… not… enough.
You create shortages
This is an effective way to create needs. Like you requires something and that without it it is not enough. I need x, I need y… And that's the only way to be successful or happy. The problem with this perspective is that nothing will ever be enough because you will always focus on what fattas.
Do not think for a second that it will be different for you.
What to do instead
Look at what you have in your life, no matter how small or insignificant you may think it is. I do not mean that you should "see it from the bright side" or something else cliché that you still do not believe in. But rather just state the facts, that which is…
Good… nice… enough and so on.
"This" I am happy with… I appreciate "this" right now… "This" is a nice thing that I possess in my personality ..
Do you understand my point?
Just say it in your head. Then you release it.
After that, do it every day, as often as you can, as much as you can.
Because you need it. We all need it.
You will not lose your drive
I'm not saying you should be happy and stop chasing your dreams. What I'm saying is that if you try to achieve things to feel successful or successful while doing all of this from a place of "not enough" on the inside, then you will fail forever.
You are not.
How to work further with this
If you want to learn more about how you can practice this mindset, I have a logbook that you can download for free. It is a simple training routine that takes just under 3 minutes to do. - click here
This is part of my method The Flow-Mindset, which I use to take athletes, achievers and dreamers to a place where they both become happier and perform higher than they could have imagined. If you want to know more about Flow-Mindset, I have a free workshop you are welcome to join where I go through the method and how you should do to kick start big changes in your life - click here
Are you curious about how you can radically change your life over the next 12 months and want the best support in this. Book an intro on the button below so we can talk about this unconditionally.
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About the author
Tommy Davidovic
Cert. Coach (CPCC, PCC, CTPC) & Mental Trainer. I help achievers in sports, career and life to maximize their success and feel good in the meantime.